What's the difference between Gay & Queer?
Asexual / Ace someone who has little or no sexual attraction to other people.
Brotherboy and Sistergirl Terms used by some Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander communities to describe trans people. Brotherboy typically refers to masculine spirit people who may be assigned female at birth, Sistergirl typically refers to feminine spirit people who may be assigned male at birth.
Bisexual described as an attraction to someone of the same gender and other genders.
Cisgender Someone who is not transgender or gender diverse, and who identifies with the sex they were assigned by doctors at birth. Sometimes written as ‘cis’ for short, the term comes from Latin meaning ‘on the same side as’ and is used in contrast with ‘trans’ meaning ‘on the other side of’.
Gay most commonly used to described someone who is attracted to someone of the same identified gender.
Discrimination Treating someone like crap, or less than equal because they have a certain characteristic, like a school not allowing you to wear the uniform that aligns with your gender identity. Discrimination due to sexuality or gender identity is nearly always illegal in Australia.
Gender Diverse Describes a person who feels that their gender identity does not fit into the categories associated with their assigned sex. For example, someone who is raised as a girl may feel as though the categories of female/feminine are restrictive or don’t apply to them. Questioning how gender stereotypes relate to you is normal - and some people identify as genders other than male or female.
Heteronormativity & Cissexism The assumption that everyone is straight and cisgender. It’s pretty easy to do, especially when you don’t know many same sex attracted or gender diverse people. It’s also the assumption that you have to act a certain way because of your gender.
Homosexual is an older word meaning attracted to the same gender. Nowadays, it’s usually used as a bit of a insult, and shouldn’t be used to describe someone unless they use it to describe themselves first.
Homophobia Used to describe a whole range of negative feelings or behaviours towards anyone who is same sex attracted people and people who are attracted to more than one gender. Homophobia can lead to discrimination or abuse, like using the phrase “that’s so gay.”
Intersectionality the mixed nature of social factors such as race, class, and gender as they apply to a given individual or group, often creating an overlap and susceptibility of discrimination or disadvantage.
Intersex People are born with different kinds of bodies. People who are intersex are born with natural variations in their body that differ from what we might expect to be ‘typically’ male/female. This can include (but is not limited to) variations in hormones, chromosomes, and sexual organs. A lot of us are taught that when you have high testosterone that you’re male, but if you’re a male that is born with low testosterone you may describe yourself as intersex. There are heaps of ways that you can be intersex!
Non-Binary An umbrella term people use to describe gender that doesn’t fit squarely into male or female. This can be a mix of both, fluid, or something else entirely.
Pansexual Describes the sexual, romantic or emotional attraction towards people regardless of their sex or gender identity.
PoC Acronym of Person of Colour
Queer A common umbrella term used to mean anyone who is same gender attracted or gender diverse.
Queer Capitalism The trend in corporations to publicly support LGBTIQ+ initiatives with no direct support of the community
Questioning/Unsure Most people will question their sexual or gender identity at some point throughout their life. It can be confusing stuff, but it’s also pretty normal.
QTIPoC Describes a Queer, Trans, Intersex Person of Colour
Sexuality Sexuality describes who you are attracted to physically and romantically. It’s totally different to your gender identity, although sometimes people are confused about this.
Stereotyping Generalising that all people belonging to a particular group have certain characteristics.
Tokenism Making a purely symbolic effort to do a particular thing, especially by recruiting a small number of people from under-represented groups in order to give the appearance of sexual or racial equality within a workforce.
Transgender Sometimes gender diverse people feel that their gender doesn’t match the sex they were assigned at birth, ie - someone born with a penis might identify as a girl - this is referred to as being transgender. Sometimes trans people change their name, their clothes, or even make change to their bodies. Sometimes they don’t.
Transphobia Used to describe a whole range of negative feelings or behaviours towards anyone who is gender diverse or transgender people, their desires and/or behaviours, that can lead to discriminatory actions or abuse.
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